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Whose fault is the child too willful? [Abstract] the so-called willful, is to allow their own subjective temperament and preferences to do things, or the individual needs and desires without restraint, completely ignore the feelings of others. However, children’s self willed is a kind of psychological needs. Any habit has its cause. Wayward children, summed up several reasons: parents over indulge and conniving the modern families have only one child, the parents of the child care times to the requirements of children with profound respect and humility. No control, no principle to responsive to the child, for fear of poor care let the children suffer a little grievance, children will naturally insatiable. Children feeding this very common, but also very Chinese characteristics. Doting grandparents not only, also dare not strict discipline. Although many young parents are already aware of the drawbacks, but because both sides have to work, but also the letter small nanny, so only the grandparents feeding through to the end. The Lang Lang is a typical example. A small constant is very naughty, often happen some bumps. At this time, the grandmother will be nervous to complain about his grandfather did not look at the grandson of a tight spot, fell to the son of a bad husband confessed. Parents lack of patience a disobedient child, parents also began to adhere to the principle, when the children can continue to do whatever they want, parents feel tired, think "anyway, he won’t listen to teach", "the child is still small, is not sensible, so he will naturally good, and no longer adhere to the. These parents do not know, children’s self-control has not yet awakened, most of them want to do what they want to do. [Abstract] the so-called willful, is to allow their own subjective temperament and preferences to do things, or the individual needs and desires without restraint, completely ignore the feelings of others. However, children’s self willed is a kind of psychological needs. Parents must adhere to the principle. A basic truth you reap "is very simple: if when young children do not teach responsibility but a compromise, don’t expect the children will automatically change. The children have poor self-control, impulsivity, one-sided thinking and stereotype of parents do not understand the children’s psychological, not reason with rebuke, beatings and other children all the way to respond to "unreasonable demands", resulting in children’s rebellious, with stubborn against parents rude, thus contributing to child’s unruly behavior. Children should be as soon as possible, don’t wait until problems highlighted began to worry, capricious problems are also formed in daily life, be a careful parents to prevent children’s unruly behavior habits! Small series of words: children in the germination of the characteristics of the child’s ability to receive things particularly fast, so during this period the right to teach it will often get twice the result with half the effort. The American Academy of Pediatrics doctor Speirs even advocate the child was born, parents should carry on the purpose of education and guidance. He said: "if you start from second days after the birth of the child discipline, you are a day late."相关的主题文章: